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Utilizing EFT For Anger Problems

Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

If you have a problem with your temper, especially if you have a hair-trigger temper which can go off without a moment’s notice, you may believe that there’s not a lot you can do about it.

However, there is a method of diminishing anger problems, and even dissipating anger before it can take hold of the body and cause you to snap.

The Problem With Repressed Anger
For many people, the problem is repressed anger. If you’ve had a hard day at work, maybe have had problems with your boss or colleagues, perhaps forgotten something important or made a small mistake, you can feel like an idiot, and become quite angry at yourself. However, as you’re at work and being a professional, you put aside your feelings of anger, or feelings of guilt and effectively squash them away.

Then, you get stuck in a traffic jam, you forget to visit the grocery store and you discover that one of your kids has had to stay after school for detention. Suddenly the repressed anger comes out and you lose your control. Quite often the trigger is something very minor and the response excessive.

How To Use EFT For Anger
EFT is a very effective technique for dealing with just about any emotional or mental problem, and is also helpful in conquering many physical problems as well.

Throughout our lives, we experience many negative experiences which we attach negative emotions to, and these negative emotions affect the body’s energy meridians. With EFT it is possible to realign the energy meridians and break them from the associated negative emotions.

Anger may have a number of different sources, and it can be important to analyze exactly what makes you angry, so you can conquer the root problem. Perhaps you get angry because you feel people are not taking you seriously, or you get angry when someone makes you feel like a fool, or makes you feel inept.

When you use EFT for the issues that cause you to become angry, you may find that you are less likely to become angry, even when you enter into situations that would usually anger you.

Inner Healing With the Emotional Freedom Technique

Sunday, November 1st, 2009

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) provides a simple way of bringing about profound inner healing. Everyone has some form of emotional “damage” which has occurred throughout their lives. Everyone is affected from earliest childhood by the events that occur around them. Even the best of parents can cause emotional scars through an unkind word or a cross tone of voice. For some people, the scars may run much deeper, if they have experienced profound abuse or trauma in their lives.

The result of all of these negative emotions are energy meridians which are misaligned. They become attached to negative thoughts, and produce negative emotions which may be detrimental in many areas of a person’s life.

What Problems Can EFT Heal?

Most people possess irrational fears, some more than others, whether it be a fear of speaking in public, or a fear of spiders or snakes, these fears can have a profoundly negative impact on a person’s life. Other people find themselves unable to interact normally in social situations, and find their professional and social lives suffer as a result.

For this reason, most people need some form of inner healing to produce the desired outer change. The ability to approach people of the opposite sex without fear can have a tremendous input into someone’s life and can bring with it great joy. Having the confidence to go for a new job or promotion can mean the difference between an unrewarding job and one which is truly meaningful and stimulating.

How Can EFT Assist Inner Healing?
EFT tackles the problem by disconnecting the emotion from the problem, by realigning the energy meridians of the body so that fears and phobias can dissolve naturally. For many people, the inner healing they receive from EFT is quick and profound. An individual with a lifelong fear of snakes, suddenly finds that they no longer have any fear of snakes. Other people who were addicted to smoking, suddenly find their need for a cigarette greatly diminished (even completely absent).

EFT is something that can be learned quickly and easily, and although it may seem strange to many people, it’s well worth putting in the time and effort to learn and experiment with it. If something in your life is holding you back, EFT may provide the inner healing you need to fix it once and for all.

Emotional Freedom Technique for Wealth

Friday, August 28th, 2009

How would you like to be wealthy? Before you yell, “I would love it,” think about it for a minute. Many people have underlying beliefs about wealth and money that actually prevent them from obtaining the money that they claim to want. Deep down, do you have issues that are keeping you from accepting the possibility that you actually could be wealthy?

You can use the emotional freedom technique for wealth to help you overcome these issues. First, let’s address a few common issues that people have that are related to being wealthy or having an abundance of money.

The fear of lack. Deep down, many people believe that they will never have enough money. This can stem from constantly working and getting paid, yet never having all the money needed to cover financial obligations. Thinking that you will never have enough money can discourage you from seeking new opportunities that could bring you success and wealth.

The rich stigma. Some people are a bit cynical, and believe that some or all wealthy individuals are greedy or have somehow been dishonest in obtaining their money. People who don’t want to become greedy or thought of as dishonest avoid anything that will bring them abundance.

Being afraid to change as a person. Not all change is bad. While getting rich might make you a different person, that doesn’t mean that you will become a self-centered snob, or someone that you don’t want to be. In fact, wealth can help you do all of the things that you have always wanted to do, and allow you the freedom to be who you where truly meant to be.

Feeling unworthy. There are a lot of people who simply don’t believe that they deserve to be rich. Everyone has the right. If others can obtain wealth, so can you.

Are you facing one or more of these hindering thought patterns? Try using the emotional freedom technique for wealth. As you tap each point, release each negative thought one by one. Get rid of the thoughts that tell you:

“I will never have all the money I need.”

“The wealthy are greedy and dishonest.”

“Being rich will make me a bad person.”

“I don’t deserve wealth.”

Once you have released these fears, you should continue the emotional freedom technique for wealth process with positive thoughts that debunk the negative thinking you just released. As you tap each point, tell yourself that you are thankful that you can have abundance and that you deserve wealth. Determine that being rich will not corrupt you, but you will be an honest and giving person.

Practice the emotional freedom technique for wealth until your thinking is clear of hindrances. Then, go after your wealth!