Archive for November, 2009

Utilizing EFT For Anger Problems

Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

If you have a problem with your temper, especially if you have a hair-trigger temper which can go off without a moment’s notice, you may believe that there’s not a lot you can do about it.

However, there is a method of diminishing anger problems, and even dissipating anger before it can take hold of the body and cause you to snap.

The Problem With Repressed Anger
For many people, the problem is repressed anger. If you’ve had a hard day at work, maybe have had problems with your boss or colleagues, perhaps forgotten something important or made a small mistake, you can feel like an idiot, and become quite angry at yourself. However, as you’re at work and being a professional, you put aside your feelings of anger, or feelings of guilt and effectively squash them away.

Then, you get stuck in a traffic jam, you forget to visit the grocery store and you discover that one of your kids has had to stay after school for detention. Suddenly the repressed anger comes out and you lose your control. Quite often the trigger is something very minor and the response excessive.

How To Use EFT For Anger
EFT is a very effective technique for dealing with just about any emotional or mental problem, and is also helpful in conquering many physical problems as well.

Throughout our lives, we experience many negative experiences which we attach negative emotions to, and these negative emotions affect the body’s energy meridians. With EFT it is possible to realign the energy meridians and break them from the associated negative emotions.

Anger may have a number of different sources, and it can be important to analyze exactly what makes you angry, so you can conquer the root problem. Perhaps you get angry because you feel people are not taking you seriously, or you get angry when someone makes you feel like a fool, or makes you feel inept.

When you use EFT for the issues that cause you to become angry, you may find that you are less likely to become angry, even when you enter into situations that would usually anger you.

Inner Healing With the Emotional Freedom Technique

Sunday, November 1st, 2009

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) provides a simple way of bringing about profound inner healing. Everyone has some form of emotional “damage” which has occurred throughout their lives. Everyone is affected from earliest childhood by the events that occur around them. Even the best of parents can cause emotional scars through an unkind word or a cross tone of voice. For some people, the scars may run much deeper, if they have experienced profound abuse or trauma in their lives.

The result of all of these negative emotions are energy meridians which are misaligned. They become attached to negative thoughts, and produce negative emotions which may be detrimental in many areas of a person’s life.

What Problems Can EFT Heal?

Most people possess irrational fears, some more than others, whether it be a fear of speaking in public, or a fear of spiders or snakes, these fears can have a profoundly negative impact on a person’s life. Other people find themselves unable to interact normally in social situations, and find their professional and social lives suffer as a result.

For this reason, most people need some form of inner healing to produce the desired outer change. The ability to approach people of the opposite sex without fear can have a tremendous input into someone’s life and can bring with it great joy. Having the confidence to go for a new job or promotion can mean the difference between an unrewarding job and one which is truly meaningful and stimulating.

How Can EFT Assist Inner Healing?
EFT tackles the problem by disconnecting the emotion from the problem, by realigning the energy meridians of the body so that fears and phobias can dissolve naturally. For many people, the inner healing they receive from EFT is quick and profound. An individual with a lifelong fear of snakes, suddenly finds that they no longer have any fear of snakes. Other people who were addicted to smoking, suddenly find their need for a cigarette greatly diminished (even completely absent).

EFT is something that can be learned quickly and easily, and although it may seem strange to many people, it’s well worth putting in the time and effort to learn and experiment with it. If something in your life is holding you back, EFT may provide the inner healing you need to fix it once and for all.